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I am having trouble with the way I speak to my father-in-law, and it's starting to cause issues between my Plenty of fish dating free in Australia and I. I have been dealing with depression and anxiety for 7 years after a severe injury, have been to a psychologist and on medication, Hw and off over that time, and I am on antidepressants at the moment, mainly due to trying to deal with.
I know why I am speaking to him the way I am, it's because he is Busselton women Australia narcissist, he treats everyone with total disrespect, he never has anything positive to say, and is the most selfish and self centred person I have ever met.
He seems to be slowly destroying my house that he also lives in, as fathef is broke and he is not at fault for. His family make excuses for his behaviour, but expect me to change mine, which is extremely frustrating at times.
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The reason I want to change the way I speak to my father-in-law, is because I am not the person that I am when I speak to him, if that makes sense I am not a nasty person so I am told so why can't I control my attitude with him, I don't want to play at his level!
So, anyone have any tips for me on how I can change the way I speak to him, I know why it happens, it's usually after he breaks or damages something, and I get frustrated. I know I can't change. I know my wife won't stop making excuses for him, and if anyone does point out he is wrong, he goes into a rage, making life hard for. I know he wants everyone to be I guys Orange, cause that makes him happy.
My best defence against him had been to be happy around him, and just brush off his negativity, but I am finding it hard to do that.
If you were not relatedyou could just Nana hotel Maryborough girls this person but as he lives with you and is your wife's father, it makes things tricky. You know want you should do but it is difficult as your father in law knows what buttons to press but you realise he will come out looking ok as everyone will make excuses for him but not for you.
I had a relative who would say things to annoy me and I would often be in tears but the one time I stood up to this person and my children said I was mean and rude and that was not me.
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You should judge your words and actions by Hoe likely they are to bring you closer to that sort of relationship, he adds. One way to do this is? Open up conversations z your father-in-law about his interests. If he loves airplanes, do Escort Tamworth eros bit of research dififcult different planes and discuss.
If he likes to cook, ask him for some recipe ideas or to tell you about his favorite meals. Keep the conversations light. Avoid anything major.
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